Parenting can be the most rewarding task you will ever undertake. It does not come without its set of challenges though, and those challenges can sometimes lead to stress, exhaustion, and even anger. So how do you get through the day to day tasks involved in parenting without losing your mind? Let’s look at some simple tips that can help.
Try to make sure that you never force a child to eat. If it is mealtime and they simply refuse, accept that and offer up nutritious foods when they do become hungry. If a child is truly hungry, he will eat what you put in front of him.
When trying to potty train your child, it is advised that you give them a reward each time they successfully use the toilet. This reward can be their favorite food or candy, a sticker, or anything else they enjoy. By doing this, they will be encouraged to consistently use the potty.
It is very important that you teach you teach your kids what to do in the event of a fire. This way, if a fire were to occur, they are prepared and they know which way is the easiest for them to exit the home safely, even if they cannot find you.
Don’t let your child leave for school without reflective tape on his backpack. Put this tape on his clothes, too, for extra protection. This material is also available in Velcro strips that can be easily attached and detached. Retro-reflective materials, whether Velcro or tape, make children more visible if they’re walking prior to sunrise or after dark. No matter what time of day it is, wearing reflective materials draws drivers’ attention to your children’s presence and makes road accidents less likely.
If you want your child to have a healthy emotional intelligence, make sure to validate their emotions and discuss emotional expression with them. Children learn when it is appropriate and inappropriate to express emotion – show them that emotions are a natural and valid means of expressing our feelings by labeling emotions for them, discussing both their and your emotional expressions, and validating their feelings.
Avoid arguing with your spouse in front of your children or their friends. It is important that the two of you show a united front, even if everything is not pure bliss on the marriage front. This does not mean you must act like the perfect couple, just that you are united in cases regarding children.
Although children may be temperamental there is no such thing as a bad child. If your child is constantly disobedient and disrespectful, that says much more about you than it does your children. Just like you had to learn Algebra you must learn how to raise a child. There are many resources available for you.
Parenting is a rewarding and amazing experience, but not one without frustrations. As we have discussed in this article, exhaustion and stress are a regular part of parenting, but they do not have to be an all consuming part. With a little help from the tips provided you can be a better parent and a happier individual.